Monday, November 30, 2015

GIVEAWAY : I'm Happy for You (Sort Of..Not Really) Finding Contentment

Can you really find contentment in a a world of comparison. In the world of social media and not just on our real lives , it is indeed very easy to fall into this culture of comparison.
Comparing ourselves to our friends, our family and even strangers! I must admit  that I have fallen into this trap before and I may fall into it again.  

It started in a Facebook comment. I don't recall the exact picture where the comment was made. But all I remember was being told that I need to go out more often ( Because I am a SAHM), that I have to tell my husband that I need a break. This comment was made by a working mom. I really have a beef with the comparison between a stay at home mom and the working mom. Needless to say,  it got me thinking? Am I really missing something with not going out? I felt little .. and ended up comparing herself to me. While I'm at home taking care of my little ones wearing my worn out sweats , she shared a lot of pictures of herself fully made up, nice clothes, branded things.  Then I prayed and with my husbands wisdom. He reminded me of how valuable my work here at home with our kids is. It doesn't matter what other people may think of me being a stay at home mom, what matters is the time I am putting in with our girls. The girls that God has entrusted me with. 

Then I have that friend too, she used to constantly compare herself to me and others. She sees a supermom in me. I'm not. . She sees me all prettied up but she doesn't see the mountains of laundry that I have. She notices our girls good attributes but doesn't see the hard work  that I invest in them, the teamwork my husband and I put in.

If we are not careful and mindful , we will end up being envious of others. We will steal somebody elses joy just because we can't find our own. We can't find the contentment in not being perfect.


"I'm Happy for You (Sort Of...Not Really): Finding Contentment in a Culture of Comparison" by Kay Wills Wyma is a book about the struggle of comparison. I really adore her sense of humor! Especially on that part where she was filling out an online form for a position. Been there, done that. 




If you struggle with comparisons, you will love this book! You are not the only one with food wrappers in the car or laundry in the washer that's been washed 3 times!






 About Im Happy For You (Sort OfNot Really)
     Our cultural obsession with comparison is undercutting relationships and sapping contentment. With disarming candor and humor, Kay Wills Wyma explores how to trade comparison for compassion and rediscover what life is all about.
       It’s easy to get caught in the comparison games we play with our appearances, our kids, and our homes. Kay reminds exhausted families about tried and true remedies from the pressures of competitive living.
       In her warm, relateable style, Kay confronts the comparison epidemic raging in our homes, our neighborhoods, and our social-media feeds, offering remedies along the way.
       With candor and humor, Im Happy For You (Sort OfNot Really) explores the troubling effects of living in an excessively competitive culture—and reveals simple yet effective ways to escape the comparison trap.

About the Author
Kay Wills Wyma is a blogger, mother of five, and the author of Cleaning House through which she has appeared on The TODAY Show, CNN, Glenn Beck, The New York Times, Focus on the Family, and more. Before becoming a stay-at-home mom, she held positions at the White House, the Staubach Company, and Bank of America. Kay lives in the Dallas area with her husband, Jon, and their family.

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"Disclosure (in accordance with the FTC’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising”): Many thanks to Propeller Consulting, LLC for providing this prize for the giveaway. Choice of winners and opinions are 100% my own and NOT influenced by monetary compensation. I did receive a sample of the product in exchange for this review and post.
 Only one entrant per mailing address, per giveaway. If you have won a prize from our sponsor Propeller / FlyBy Promotions in the last 30 days, you are not eligible to win. If you have won the same prize on another blog, you are not eligible to win it again. Winner is subject to eligibility verification.”
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6 comments:

  1. Looks like a really funny book! I am that one who sometimes has to do the laundry 3 times lol!

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  2. Really excited to check out this book!

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  3. I love the gospels... hard to pick a favorite passage, but at this time of the year, probably the story of Jesus' birth in Luke! :)

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    1. Thanks for sharing this giveaway at Friday Frivolity!! I have my fingers crossed! ;P

      PS, the automatic tweet for the giveaway tweets about a men's devotional bible instead of this book.... just wanted to let you know!

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    2. Also, I have so totally done the comparison game with facebook posts... just yesterday in fact.... We'll keep working on it! ;)

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    3. Hi Eliza! Thank you very much for letting me know.. I really have a bad case of brain farts lately..lol

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